One time, last summer, I saw an ad on meetup for someone looking to go to the Hamptons. I met with the person for drinks, made a whole plan…and they bailed. Supposedly you can only go to the Hamptons when it’s sunny. Apparently I was supposed to change my plan because things weren’t perfect for her.
But I had my jitney ticket , so… I went. Welcome to my solo trip to Montauk.
This is the beach. It was basically empty because the lightest rain was falling. Not even a real rainshower, just barely a mist. So I got to finally experience the beach in Montauk without a massive crowd. Introvert paradise.
I had some food. I enjoyed not having to wait on a long line, fight for a table or wait a long time for my meal. I just sat there eating and watching boats go by with no stress.
You know what this is. You’ve watched Kid Gorgeous. You know the joke.
Then I took the LIRR home.
The thing I hate the most about people is when they just leave you hanging after gassing you up. At the end of the day, it’s not up to anyone to decide how your time is going to be spent. If someone bails on your plans, don’t stay home and sulk. Go out and do what you were planning (unless you desperately need two people, but most plans can shrink to a solo capacity if needed).
This wasn’t easy for me at all. I’ve never been to Montauk and as a black woman, it can be seriously intimidating traveling alone. But I went and I lived.
This year I made a personal promise to actually buy things from local brands, startups and people I follow on instagram (who are local startups). I randomly found Frozen Medz and decided that what I needed was vegan, organic no dairy iced treats in my life. Ever do some random thing and have it reward you in ways you didn’t foresee? That’s where I’m at with this.
I had an unfortunate Haagen Dazs incident (there was a sale and I got three pints and ate them all within 24 hours) and I realized that if I’m going to continue to lose weight, I am going to need to leave the ice cream alone. Technically I could make my own stuff but I don’t feel like it. I found out about Frozen Medz just in time to save my summer sanity.
Above is my first order. The Blueberry Hibiscus Lemonade is basically sorrel with a twist (and includes plump blueberries in the bottle). If you’re not familiar, sorrel is a Caribbean/African drink made from hibiscus flowers and usually has ginger in it as well. And it’s super healthy. Sorrel is ambrosial when made properly. Frozen Medz has the ambrosial touch, for real.
I also tried the black girl magic fake ice cream and I was surprised at the creaminess, and how satisfying it was. I could take a bite and put it back in the fridge and be ok. I liked it, but I felt ok not greedily eating all of it. I fell madly in love with the tart sweetness of the Matcha Modness, a green tea sherbet that has green apples and green grapes along with her proprietary nut based iced dessert base. A nice scoop will leave you feeling refreshed and energized. I felt good about myself eating it, too.
Plus they deliver.
So win win all around.
I waited until they restocked and then ordered as much as I could. The shot with all the colors is: Pasa Pasa (fresh oranges, pineapple and mango), Island Vibe (a sorbet with pink pitaya, fresh strawberry and watermelon and organic lemonade), Rozelle (made from the same hibiscus leaves as the sorrel) and the Matcha Modness that we already discussed. And each flavor was as delicious as I had imagined. I re-upped on the hibiscus lemonade (too good)and got the Vanille Simple, which is exactly as it sounds.
This time I decided to play with my food.
I made these gluten free peanut butter cookies with plantain flour and the Vanille Simple (rolled in chia seeds) saved the day in an ice cream sandwich garnished with banana and peanut butter. I used the rest of the vanilla to make a peanut butter, banana ginger smoothie.
Then I got this little popsicle mold and started with the sorrel, mixed the rest of the Vanille Simple smoothie with the coconut chips that came with my order, mixed Matcha Modness with coconut milk and chia seeds, then mixed the Sorrel with coconut milk. So much fun. I am prepared for any hot weather frozen treat emergency.
I even made a cocktail:
I’ve been infusing some Tito’s vodka with fresh lemon and jalopeno and made a simple blended cocktail out of the Pasa Pasa and Matcha Modness sherbets. I threw the last of the coconut milk, a scoop of each sherbet and a quarter cup of the vodka into a blender, poured it all into a glass tumbler and garnished with a vodka soaked slice of jalopeno pepper.
That’s what I look for in a product, versatility.
Checkout Frozen Medz and get some goodies delivered, especially if you live in Brooklyn. They even have an app!
I have loved thrift shopping since I was twelve and surviving on a tiny little allowance. I figured out pretty quickly that I could not dress myself adequately on $10 per week (even though I had no bills, I paid no rent, and I was lucky that my mom gave me anything.It’s so easy to be grand on other people’s money!). I would go over to the salvation army and hunt for 50 cent bargains. That’s how I first learned about how much currency clothing, even second hand castoffs, can have. I really wish that I had some of those 50s housedresses and beaded cardigans now! You can’t find that stuff cheap anymore.
I was out looking for online merchandise when I found this big, cushy gold leather clutch with wrist handle. It looked so opulent and felt buttery soft. The gold color is even throughout with no fading. It’s vaguely lip shaped, with a dip at the top mimicking a cupid’s bow. The interior is lined with rich, silky black fabric, and features gold leather piping. I wasn’t familiar with the logo, a gold crown above the name Lewis, so I researched it as soon as I got home from trawling for treasure.
I did a quick google search and found out that this particular manufacturer was in business during the uber stylish period from the 1940s-1960s. So this is that type of bag that you would have seen a Joan wearing to dinner in her figure hugging sheath dress and kidskin gloves. I also found out that I am currently the only one with this bag for sale.
This is 60s inspired Taylor sheath dress with self belt would work perfectly with the Crown Lewis bag and these ladylike Enzo Angiolini cutout t-straps have gold accents that would would work with that period’s matchy-matchy look with accessories. I would wear these with old fashioned drop earrings, and a dainty lady watch. (I thought the filter would make this look more like an image from the past. It’s kind of gaudy. Sorry.)
I decided to bring the bag into hi-def modern reality with this ruched strapless animal print dress, punk rock denim jacket and open toe espadrilles. Big 80s style fake jewels throw it back to the society lady archetype that it was probably designed for with a sarcastic wink. That gold! I read on one of the vintage blogs that each Crown Lewis bag would come with a comb and mirror… the better to touch up your lipstick and lace front, my dear!
These are the two blogs that I found the vintage information on:
Crown Lewis vintage gold leather clutch with wristband
Vintage Crown Lewis gold leather clutch. Butter soft gold leather clutch with black satin lining. Zips open at the top, 3 pockets, on zippered pocket. Gold leather wrist strap. Minimalist, has twisted knots on both sides.
Very little wear for such an old item. 50s/60s vintage from Lewis purses.
Measures 20 inches long and 8 inches high. *price includes shipping. *United States only.
Taylor sheath dress with self belt, size 2
Aqua sheath dress, 60s style. Features tie belt at the waist with brass grommets. Cap sleeves. Fully lined. Thick rayon, nylon, spandex material.
34 inches from shoulder to hem. 17.5 inches from armpit to armpit, 15 inches across waist. *Shipping is included in price. *United States only.
Enzo Angiolini t-strap pumps, size10
Caramel and gold pumps with cutouts and a 4 inch heel. Brand new, never worn, and they come with the original box. *Price includes shipping.*United States only.
Gold animal print tube dress, size M
Gold animal print strapless ruched body on minidress from Forever 21. Has bra cups for support. Polyester spandex, fully lined. Pulls on easily, instant glam up. You’ll spend more time putting on your perfect winged eyeliner than getting into this dress.
Measures 26 inches from top to hem. 16 inches across the chest. Waist is 11 1/2 inches. Hips are 16 across. *Price includes shipping. *United States only.
SEB Market BK Upcycled Punk denim jacket, size
Re-worked, upcycled SEB Market BK denim jacket. Handpainted embellishment on back panel, cuffs painted with white and gold, sleeves are hand painted.
Jacket is distressed and ripped in places with unfinished, fringey hem. Studs, safety pins and stars added for a more authentic punk feel. Embroidered red star patch on left arm. (Currently plain in the front, with distressing and rips. Pins in photo sold separately).
Aged to look like a vintage, thrift store piece. Denim is soft and broken in, ready to rock.
Measures 20 inches from shoulder to hem, 17 inches from armpit to armpit. 14 inches across the back. Sleeves are 24.5 inches long. *Shipping is included in price. *United States only.
Brass and enamel heart pin
Dripping enamel heart pin, red with gold tone casing. Butterfly clasp back. Comes with re-usable gold lamé pouch. *Price includes shipping. *United States only.
Handmade felt and acrylic jeweled chokers, One Size
Handmade ribbon and felt chokers. Big, over the top acrylic jewels add sparkle and glamor. Super lightweight, you'll barely feel it on. Choker covers about 6 inches, the ribbon is 11.5 inches on each side. 29 inches long altogether.
*Specify diamond or smoke when ordering. **Shipping included. **United States only.
Resin and plastic cuff with acryl;ic jewels, One Size
Instant glamification. Handmade black and silver stretch cuff is lightweight plastic and resin with sparkling oversized rhinestones.
It's the kind of piece you end up grabbing more than the others because it goes with everything. Has that punk with a side of debutante thing going on. Fits comfortably on a 7 inch wrist.
Comes wrapped in gold lamé pouch.🎁
Wild Diva black tassel espadrills, size 10
Size 10 black faux leather espadrille wedges. Features Ankle strap with gold hardware and fringe on one side. 5.5 inches high. Rope edging around the upper and sole. So cute.
Some wear on the soles, but not worn down. I wiped them down with soap and water, then wiped them off with alcohol, so they are ready to go. Great for summer, but can be worn with fishnets and colored tights in the colder months. *Shipping is included in the price. *United States only.
This is the first item that I upcycled for SEB Market BK. I found this old,beat up bag with a fake plastic Prada tag and fell in love. I thought it was the perfect piece to sell on my new online stores.
The bag is very distinctive. It’s like a flat envelope or something and when you open it up, you realize that there are five separate pockets. For some reason it has velcro instead of snaps to keep it closed. Then a long, thin, sinewy black plastic strap, like a shopping bag. For a plain white knockoff bag it’s kind of dramatic.
It didn’t sell right away and I kept looking at it, trying to figure out what it needed. I realized that the plain white surface had a roiling night sky in it’s soul, with veins of gold running through. The little hand-painted grosgrain ribbon bow features a bronze spike, like a punk chocolate kiss. It took a little sanding to get the paint to stick, and then the whole thing had to be sprayed with a fixative to protect the surface.
This is the perfect summer date night, walking down the shore, hanging out with the girls outfit. The architectural ruffle detail on the skirt goes so well with the floaty off the shoulder top. Adding a carved black bangle (pushed up the forearm, not sitting at the wrist) and bronze laser cut espadrilles are all the accessorizing you need.Maybe a little gold necklace… The 90s bag adds some creative edge and flair, especially with the hit of red from the little bow. It toughens up the look, but in a fun way.
I liked it with a streamlined casual work look that can be a night out look if you add heels. The bag is your crazy. For night swap the checked uniqlo shirt and for a tube top, and unzip the ankles of the skinny jeans and let them hangover the spiked heels. New outfit, who dis?
See you next time!
Faith/SEB Market BK
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Handpainted 90s Vintage handbag
Rectangular white pvc bag with polyester lining and plastic handles. 5 interior pockets (2 handpainted with swirls of gold paint), velcro closure tabs.
Exterior has been handpainted in white and black swirls with gold droplets on the front. Handpainted grosgrain ribbon bow embellished with a single goldtoned spike. The bag has been sprayed with matte finishing spray protect to the design.
Measures 11 high, 10.5 inches wide, 12.5 strap drop. *Price includes shipping. *United States only.
Enamel red lip earrings
Dali-esque enamel lip earrings with rhinestone accent. Red enamel lips enclosed in a gold plated heart. They're about 1x1 inch.
Comes wrapped in gold lamé pouch.🎁 *Price includes shipping. *United States only.
Off the shoulder white top, size M
Angel wing off the shoulder top. Light, airy and summer sexy. Top is 14 inches from elastic to hem. The sleeves are stitched to the body, and attach on each arm (so no way is your top coming down).
Cute with jeans and cutoffs, or with a pencil skirt. *Price includes shipping.. *United States only.
BCBgeneration ruffle skirt, Size 0
BCBGENERATION ruffles miniskirt. Sculptural ruffle/draping detail flows diagonally across the front of the skirt. Works best with simple pieces like crisp button downs, T-shirt’s, and sweatshirts. Pair with a tank and heels for hot nights out. Made of 100% polyester.
Brand new, never worn.
Measures 18 inches from waist to hem. 16 inches across the hips. *Price includes shipping. *United states only.
Mango skinny jeans, size 4
Light grey premium denim, cotton spandex. Plain back pockets. 6 inch zippers at both ankles make them easy to put on and expand styling options. Cotton elastane (98/2). Excellent condition.
28.5 inseam, 8.75 across the thigh. 13 across the waist, 9 inch rise. *Price includes shipping. *United States only.
Superga Cotu wedge sneakers, 6.5 M/8 W
Some wear on soles, but uppers in near perfect condition. Superga tags on the side and rubber tags at the heel are in perfect condition.
*Unisex. 6.5 men's, size 8 women's.
Sole is 1 inch at the toe and 2 inches at the heel. 3.25 inches across at the widest part of the foot. *Price includes shipping. *United STates only.
I’ve been wearing glasses since I was 12 thanks to reading under the covers when I was supposed to be sleeping. My mom has 20/20 vision. Unfairness! Anyway, I’ve never had more than one pair of glasses until recently. I thought it was time to start a glasses wardrobe, like a real grownup. It seems like the adult thing to do, instead of having to freak out if I can’t find my glasses or worrying that I might break them and be blind.
I saw an ad for these on some website and found out that you can get crazy, badass fashion glass for the price of a good meal or two bottles of decent pinot. Not only that, they allow you to upload your prescription quickly and easily. AND my glasses were ready almost instantaneously. Amazing. And they shipped immediately. And they showed up on my doorstep a week later. The easy, get it instantly 2019 life is working for me. And having these cute eyeglass cases, and a teeny two headed screwdriver. For $80!
I suck at taking selfies these days but I had to see how I looked immediately. After applying some eyeshadow (because glasses magnify your eyes) and lipstick, and of course earrings… I was going to do outfits, too, but I was too excited. The huge Alberta frames are super dramatic in black with tortoiseshell at the bottom. The oversized brow means that I won’t have to paint mine in, so instant win. I love them. They’re so Oprah!
I chose the Brayden frames because I’ve always been fascinated by cateye frames, but I always get rectangular or square. Instead of rhinestones, these have punk rock conical studs. I was intimidated by the size at first, but the frames are so lightweight I didn’t want to take them off. Both offer me crystal clear, perfect, sharp vision and the larger size gives me more range of vision, I think. I’m definite;y looking at sunglasses. I have never in my life had prescription sunglasses. The luxury!
Check out the affordable frames and sunglasses at www.zeelol.com. Buy a new outfit with the money you save.
I don’t love makeup, but I’m ok with wearing it. It’s more of a toy than a necessity, but if I buy anything I want it to be the best quality so that I can feel comfortable and confident while I have it on. If anything I want to forget it’s there and just go about my business. I had a birthday/rebranding photo shoot in May so of course I had to exercise the credit card at Sephora to update my makeup wardrobe. I wanted to amp it up for a sunkissed basic beat that put a frosted gloss on my usual naked face. It’s not perfect, but it was different.
It started with a change of eye color. While I was researching and watching makeup tutorials, I noticed that people were changing eye color like shoes. I felt like making a bold statement so I went for these Polar Ice Grey lenses that help show off the curves of my eye and make a striking contrast with my skin. It’s not better than my brown eyes, and it’s not worse, it’s just different. Also cheap, they were about $25 with free shipping. Get a 10% discount off your own TTD Eye lenses using this link. Use the code SEBMARKETBKEYES at checkout.
I spent a month making sure I drank enough water, washing my face with Cetaphil and doing a weekly homemade bentonite clay mudmask. The day of the shoot I woke up early, took a long bath and gave myself a hydrating facial (they stopped making this mask and I only have one more left. I’m devastated.), then put these Tarte eye bag masks on while I toweled off and put lotion on my body. Once I had brushed my teeth and everything I applied Ancient Cosmetics Even Skin face cream. I use this cream morning and night, and I love how it just melts right into the skin without leaving a greasy feel.
This is how this goes- I put a little of the Smashbox blurring primer in my palm and then I pump a little MUF HD foundation on top. I swirl it together with the beauty blender and then pat onto my skin. I use BlackUp concealer under my eyes and this Kat Von D powder to set the whole thing. I am not a contour person at all. I feel kind of annoyed at doing this much to begin with. If contouring became mandatory I’d prob just throw all this stuff in the garbage.
I mean this.
I am a sucker for neutrals, nudes and shimmery metallic sparkles. I’m trying to break out of it? But if I see something like the Natasha Denona mini star palette in this photo I’m incapable of not buying it. I love how rich and pigmented the colors are. I could do stuff like carve out the eyelid with this. The other palette is from a drugstore brand, Black Radiance. Not the greatest, but I think I’ll try wetting the brush before using these colors. I got this Fenty highlighter along with a mini lipgloss. I’m still practicing highlighting techniques. I need to blend more and I have a tendency to forget.
Once I got the eyeshadow situation sorted I had to finish the job. I use Anastasia brow pomade (previous pic), and today I went with eyeliner pen because I felt like a sharp outline was the best way to go. As you can see from this tube of eyelash glue, eyelashes are not my strong point. Normally I just use a lengthening mascara.
Buy this: Pat McGrath Lust Trance lipgloss in Bronze Divinity, $28. I love this lipgloss. LOVE. IT. It smells delicious and the shine is high fashion gloss without being sticky. It’s a substantial size, and the wand makes you want to stand in the mirror just gently putting on more and more candy smelling gloss while looking deeply into your own eyes. The smaller pencil is lipliner and I think I put the black eyeliner in the photo by mistake, forgetting that I was supposed to shoot my concealer.
What do you do to get ready for a big day? Do you find yourself obsessing over every little detail or do you just sleep like a baby? Do you lay out everything you’ll need before you go to bed or just get up and do whatever comes in your head? I’m usually paralyzed with anxiety the day before I do anything, thinking of all that could go wrong or how I might get laughed at.
It usually ends up fine, but even if things go horribly wrong I know I did my best and that’s all that anyone can reasonably ask from me.
See you next time!
Faith/SEB Market BK
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Upcycled grunge plaid shirt
Customized Mossimo Athletic Fit plaid button down shirt hand treated with bleach. Unisex. Decorated with stars, studs, and bleach treated denim stripe, then bleached again. Denim panel is hand painted. Soft, 100% cotton and machine washable.
Measures 30 inches from shoulder to hem. 25 inches from armpit to armpit. 19 inches across back shoulders. Sleeves are 26.5 inches. *Shipping is included in the price. **United States only.
Silver Love You More necklace
Love You More silver/zinc alloy block letter necklace. Chain is 9.5 inches long with 3 inch extension. Pendant is 1 inch square and rests on breastbone.
Love all day long.
Comes with gold lamé pouch. *Price includes shipping. **United States only.
I added three more designs to my shoe collection! All unisex with a sporty red, white and black color scheme and all geared towards maximizing your style while you get your chill on. (Hm, slightly cringey but we’ll keep going).
My first design is perfect for the summer months (and beyond if you’re brave enough to break out the athletic socks. Sharp white, black and grey Italian leather straps encase the foot while they rest on a cork bed. The soles are red rubber, with a textured bottom. Unisex, so they work as well with black tank and jeans as they would with a crisp fit and flare shirtdress. Six days left to order these beauties AND you can get $30 off when you pre-order
These are made to last you through every lazy beach day, picnic and amusement park outing. Solid black Italian leather trimmed in white, with red elastic gussets at the sides for stretch and a comfortable fit. Cute red rubber soles add a sporty, fun touch. Unisex, so you can get matching shoes with your s/o or bff. Use this code for $10 off HLTPSQAPFWP!
Get your training on with these Italian leather limited edition vintage style trainers. Perfectly suited for walking and running, Cushioned at the ankle, perforated toe cap, foam rubber soles for extra bounce. I’m really proud of how the red, black and white elements play off of each other. The sleek shape just embraces the foot like a sock. Get them! Get a pair for all your friends! Here’s a coupon for $10 off, GGFSYICRVLH
I love a high-top sneaker. They look good with suits, cropped wide legged trousers, cargo shorts, miniskirts, board shorts, khakis, jeans and whatever else you can think of to wear. White leather with a black stripe and toecap, but the red stripe is suede. White rubber sole features contrasting black stitching. Keep it all pulled together with red cotton laces. Use YIIEQEGJANIfor $10 off.
So excited to have my first capsule SEBMktBK(shoes) collection online and ready to shop! I can’t make it without you guys, so please, please, please help me make my shoe mogul dreams a reality. BTW, each pair is handmade with locally sourced Italian materials. There’s free shipping and no hassle returns for stress free shopping, too.